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The Dos and Don’ts of Asking Your Friends to Help You Move

December 20, 2021 | Household Moves, Moving Guides & Tips

We’ve all been there at some point: you’re surrounded by a pile of boxes while preparing for a big move thinking how nice it would be to have some assistance. Whether it’s a long-distance move or just a few houses down the street, you’re probably contemplating asking friends for moving help.

Moving is a daunting task, and few people enjoy the process. If you’re thinking about rallying some of your friends to help alleviate the stress and save money, here are some tips to make the request successful.

Do Acknowledge That It’s a Big Ask

No one likes moving. It’s a fact we’ve come to accept, yet we all end up doing it at some point (or many). However, before you beg your friends and family for a helping hand, make it known that their help in your moving venture is appreciated! Your true friends will likely say yes and show up to assist, but it goes a long way to make sure they’re aware how much it means to you.

Do Plan Ahead

What’s worse than being asked to help a friend move a heavy couch up four flights of stairs? Being asked to do it the morning of moving day. If you’re going to need a hand (or two) for your big move, make sure to give your friends a generous heads-up. Even if you’re just looking to borrow a vehicle to help transport larger items, a timely notice still applies. This will help the whole moving process go smoothly and give you time to get things organized before the day comes.

Don’t Be a Bad Host

The last thing on your mind before a move is a trip to the grocery store; that said, do be sure to have snacks and beverages for your moving helpers. If you’re going to be lifting boxes, cleaning and organizing all day, it’s important to keep your friends and family properly fed and hydrated. Remember to have some water, refreshments and healthy snacks on hand to keep you and your moving crew energized!

Don’t Forget a Game Plan

It’s moving day! After asking friends for moving help, get your ducks in a row and make sure you have a plan of attack before they arrive with their sleeves rolled up. Do you need a hand organizing boxes of delicate china, cleaning out your crawl space or loading heavy furniture in the back of a truck?

Come up with a plan so that when your help arrives, everyone knows what to do and where to be. Additionally, try to keep the natural tendency to over-delegate at bay. Your crew will appreciate some direction, but no one wants to be bossed around during a stressful day.

Do Take No for an Answer

Sometimes, no matter how kindly you ask (or beg) there might not be any takers for moving help. Schedules are busy, and life gets in the way; however, you don’t have to do it all alone. If you find yourself needing to hire professionals, Bekins has you covered. Our professional movers will help you make your new transition smooth and stress free. Contact us today!

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