The death of a loved one is arguably one of the most difficult situations a person can ever encounter. When the loved one is a child, it becomes almost incomprehensibly difficult. Grab a box of tissues and read on about the work of corporate employee Maggie Hist and the inspiration behind Aidan’s Book Corner.
On February 1, 2010, Maggie Hist’s life completely changed forever. She gave birth to her first child prematurely – a baby boy named Aidan. Giving birth to a premature baby comes with a whole host of complications and Maggie coped by reading books to her infant son. “Reading to Aidan was the only thing that made my husband and I feel normal in a not normal situation,” remembers Hist. “Goodnight Moon was our favorite book. I read it while I was pregnant and we read it in the hospital. It was our special book.”
Baby Aidan Hist lived in Community North’s NICU in Indianapolis, Ind. for eight days before he passed away. For Hist and her family, this event began a lifelong journey of coping, accepting, and starting the long and difficult healing process that goes with losing a loved one.
The Inception of Aidan’s Book Corner
Hist always knew she wanted to do something to honor her son’s memory. Remembering the importance of books not only during her pregnancy but also during their time in the hospital, she decided she wanted to use reading books as a way to remember her son. In the spring of 2012, Hist, with the help of a Bereavement Coordinator at Community North Hospital, began the process of creating what is now known as Aidan’s Book Corner. The book corner collects new books to distribute and donate to families with babies staying in Community North’s NICU. On average, almost 800 babies stay in Community Health’s NICU every year, and Hist prides herself on providing a new book for each family. “It seems like such a simple thing, a book, but you wouldn’t believe how much comfort that can bring a struggling family,” Hist says.
Aidan’s Book Corner may have started off small, but since its beginnings, it has grown tremendously thanks in large part to the generosity of the Barnes and Noble bookstores in Noblesville and Carmel, Ind. The bookstores chose Aidan’s Book Corner to be the recipient of their holiday book drive. The book drive collected nearly 2,000 brand new books that were all given to Hist’s organization. In addition to the Barnes and Noble’s donation, Hist and her family also started “National Aidan’s Book Corner Day” to celebrate Aidan’s birthday. Each year on February 1st, friends, family, and the general public is welcome to donate a new book to either Community North’s NICU or their own local NICU in honor of baby Aidan. Hist expects that the book corner will only continue to grow with time, a thought that brings herself and her family great joy.
Maggie Hist has been working with Bekins Van Lines for six years, always in the Government Services Department as a DP3 Move Coordinator. She loves the family atmosphere and culture at Bekins and said that even after losing Aidan, she never felt alone at work.
Hist and her husband have a two year old son named Lucas and are expecting their third child, a girl, in less than a month. In addition to working with Bekins, taking care of her family, and heading up Aidan’s Book Corner, Hist is part of the Grief Support Team at Community North. She says her new passion is helping out other families who have experienced a loss similar to hers. By working with Grief Support and operating Aidan’s Book Corner, she is able to keep her son’s memory alive.
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